Tandem feeding: breastfeeding more than one child

What is tandem feeding

Tandem feeding means breastfeeding two or more siblings who are not twins. Some parents feed both children at the same time, while others take turns or feed at different times depending on what works best for the family.

Reasons for tandem feeding

Parents may choose tandem feeding for various reasons:

The older child still enjoys the comfort and connection of breastfeeding.
The younger baby was born before the older child weaned.
It helps manage milk supply and reduces engorgement after birth.

For many families, tandem nursing supports bonding and eases transitions during early childhood.

Common experiences

Most parents notice that milk production adjusts naturally. Some children may prefer to feed less once the new baby arrives, while others feed more often for reassurance. Each family finds its own pattern over time.

“There is no one right way to feed two children—it’s about what fits your family best.”

Rest, hydration, and good nutrition remain important for the breastfeeding parent. Sharing the experience with supportive people or connecting with a breastfeeding counselor can also help with confidence and comfort.

Health and emotional aspects

Breastfeeding both children is safe and often strengthens emotional connections. It can meet the needs of both children—nutrition for the baby and comfort for the older one. However, some parents may experience fatigue or sensory overload, so taking breaks when needed is important.

Practical tips

Offer the newborn the breast first so they receive adequate nutrition.
Find comfortable feeding positions; pillows or reclined positions can help.
Set gentle limits for the older child if it becomes overwhelming.
Ask for help with meals, chores, and rest whenever possible.

Support and information

Tandem feeding can raise questions, especially about milk supply, sibling adjustment, or others’ opinions. Talking to health professionals or reaching out to breastfeeding support groups can provide reassurance and evidence-based advice.

Author’s summary: Tandem feeding lets parents nourish and comfort two children through breastfeeding, offering flexibility, bonding, and support tailored to each family’s needs.

Australian Breastfeeding Association — 2025-11-21